Chit Chat is where it's at!
My husband.. What an absolutely fantastic man! I truly am blessed to have him in my life!
We met 12 years ago in our first year of university. We started dating, and that is that! We have been married for just about 2 years now.
We have come such a long way as individuals and as a couple. We have been through quite a bit during these years, (some good.....some 'not so good') and even though we were never good at it in the beginning, the one thing that has kept us going is communication. Even still, we are not "Pro's" in communicating our wants, needs, dislikes etc, etc, but it is becoming more easy to do so.
We will talk everything through, even if it gets heated, one of us will push the other to get it all out. Sometimes it will take a whole Sunday afternoon to talk something through, but it has to get done. Even though at the time, I sometimes get very furious and annoyed with the persistence, I do come to embrace it and expect it... as communication is not a luxury in a relationship, but a necessity.
We met 12 years ago in our first year of university. We started dating, and that is that! We have been married for just about 2 years now.
We have come such a long way as individuals and as a couple. We have been through quite a bit during these years, (some good.....some 'not so good') and even though we were never good at it in the beginning, the one thing that has kept us going is communication. Even still, we are not "Pro's" in communicating our wants, needs, dislikes etc, etc, but it is becoming more easy to do so.
We will talk everything through, even if it gets heated, one of us will push the other to get it all out. Sometimes it will take a whole Sunday afternoon to talk something through, but it has to get done. Even though at the time, I sometimes get very furious and annoyed with the persistence, I do come to embrace it and expect it... as communication is not a luxury in a relationship, but a necessity.
"The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives"
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